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Dear star++heart–,
Try finding that courage to talk to her.
You never know what will happen.
Perhaps asking her to the March Madness?
I was like you, I didn’t have the courage to do anything.
But, I did ask her to the Snow Ball, and I felt really good afterwards.
You should ask her to the March Madness.
It could turn out good.
Dear Voesilk
Sorry im late to saying anything but if u already havn’t done anything or nothing bad has happened try talking to him at school or something tell him to back off.
I have a problem, i like one student in 7th grade.
But i don’t have courage to testimony to her.
What i could i do?
dear star–heart++,
you could try to tell your friend that she is changing, and she is getting rude….. not to mention if she is actually acting this way, shes not your friend…… you really should talk to her about it, maybe she’ll loosen up.
guys, i have a problem, ok, so remember that guy i was talking about? the one who likes me. i was starting to like him, a little, and now he’s acting all weird and stalker-ish. now, i hate him. i cant even have a conversation with him on chat, let alone face-to-face! i dont know what to do!! i’ve tried talking to him, but he won’t listen! HELP!
dear, star–heart++
if it’s possible, then mayb just dunt b friends w/ that person. Try 2 find friends that is on ur side and hang out with them and let’s c if ur bossy friend will notice.
btw, my friend is like that 2, and now, i’m w/ other ppl hu is also friends with her but not that close and they think the same things as i do…we’re all in da same ‘group’ but i dunt rly talk to my old BEST friend that much as b4.
i also find that my new friends r more loyal and they care more 2. u shud try 2..
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How are you?
Got any problems?
Like, saying who you are?!?!
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anybody miss me?
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Dear voesilk32,
Try asking other friends, maybe they know something that your friend isn’t telling you. Give your friend the benefit of the doubt, if she was a REALLY good friend, give her a second chance. You never know, maybe she didn’t say anything.
I hope this was helpful to you and your problem.
dear ricky bobby,
its worth a shot, isn’t it? if 7911 doesn’t try, she won’t know if he was going to tell her or not. what if he was going to tell her? and she didn’t ask him? this guy that i like along time ago told me who he liked, and guess what? it was me! everything worked out fine….so i don’t think its fair for you to bring your life upon 7911.
guys, i’m really having a problem with my friend. i’m starting to think she just made the whole thing up. but i have no idea to know for sure. i’ve asked her a thousand times who said those things, but she’s says i’ll never find out. im starting to get pretty mad at her, but she used to be my rlly good friend. HELP!
ricky bobby,
i asked and he told me….well he didnt say the name…but he made it obvious….haha! and i think he might ask me out! im sooo excited! but i cant get toooo happy or else if it doesnt happen then i’ll feel bad about myself. but this one person told him that i wasnt going to ask him out and so that person that told him that…kinda helped me out! (: im soooo happy! d:
Dear 7911
Um, i wouldnt do that i tried it didnt work… wasnt probobly the best thing to do
The person still hasnt told me who they like and i don’t plan to find out any time soon. Hopefully you will get luky and they will tell you but i wouldnt get your hopes up.
thanks for the advice! im gunna ask him who he likes tonight! i hope he tells me…but if he doesnt then….well ill just tell him that he owes me cause i told him who i like.
dear 7911,
this happened to me once, a guy told me he liked me, but i didn’t like him back. but it was totally cool, cuz we were still friends and it wasn’t awkward at all. i think if u ask the guy who he likes, u might actually be surprised by his answer. just tell him that u already told him who u liked, and now its his turn to tell u who he likes.
Dear 7911
I did the same thing… And yes it turned out awkward and everything but its not that bad. i mean i still talk to them but then again it helps that we already talked before. i don’t think you should just say you know what forget about it if thats not how you feel if you really do like them. Who knows he might start to like you back?
the same thing happened to me!!!
he actually did changed so
what i did was i just sed i didn’t like him n e more, and he became the same person again, but i think it wasn’t the best choice.
So i think u should just leave it like that! maybe it wont be akward… but when did u tell him? @ school or just like yesterday or smtg?
hey…i need some help….i told this guy that i liked him, and i dont know if he liks me back….wat should i do? he was bothering me because he wanted to know who i liked and i finally told him and now, im afriad its gunna be akward between the two of us. HELP!!!
Dear voesilk32
Just cause he doesnt said he liked someone else does not mean he dosnt like u. He could have said that other person just because maybe he does like u and thought your friend would tell you.
Also i don’t think you will have NO friends maybe become friends with people in classes that you think are cool if you don’t like your friends now. If you cant trust them and they wont tell you what they are saying they are ovbiously scared that you will be mad at them so they arent rly ur friends.
i pretty positive he doesn’t like me, cuz my friend asked him who he likes, and its not me. but, i don’t think i want to tell him i like him…
how am i supposed to ignore it?!? i rlly want to know who shes talking about! it rlly hurts me that someone would say something like that about me, not to mention my friends! i have nooo idea who said it, so i have nooo idea if any of these people i call “friends” are rlly my friends. plus the friend i told, is like the only person i can trust, i cant. its a rlly difficult situation and i cant just walk away from it. i may end up having no friends at all.
Dear Voesilk32
Just be yourself around him! how do you know he doesnt like you do u have proof?
About your other problem just ignore it and move on
hey again! i have a new problem, actually i have 2, but there not that big, so dont worry. ok so theres this guy that i like, but im like positive he doesnt like me back…so should i tell him how i feel or like try to get him to like me? plz help! i have noo idea what to do! and my second one is about my best friend. i tell like evrything to her, but i know she doesnt tell everything to me, and im perfectly fine with that. except, she told me that some of my good friends where saying some mean things about me, but she wont tell me who! now, i have noo idea who i can trust and if i can rlly trust her! pllzzzz help!!
OMG!!! guys, my friend isn’t mad @ me n e more, u guys really helped.
thx so much!!!!! i found this website very helpful..!
ur welcome [:
that helped! … but she won’t even talk to me. I tried to ask her and talk to her but she’s still ignoring me, and i think that’s a good idea that i should ask other ppl wat happened. normally, she would b mad easily and forgive ppl easily, but now, she wont even talk to me. We used to b bffs and when i’m with her, i’m NEVER bored. and thx n e way for the help…:D
going under…
i think your friend is just jealous, the fact that you can’t talk to anyone except her>>> well, maybe she just doesn’t have confidence and depends on you.
one question: did you guys used to be best best best friends? and like whatever you do its the 2 of you?
if yes, well then maybe she thinks you’re like “betraying” her in a way— like you’re moving on, having more friends, and leaving her behind
Guys, though they fight a lot, get along really well with each other. What i think you should do is be honest with that friend
tell her how you feel, ask her why she’s mad and why she’s doing what she’s doing. you should just say whatever is on your mind, and what you’re wondering and thinking. Also, the “other people”? Why don’t you ask them what’s going on? Ask them why that friends is mad at you, and what she’s whispering about.
The part about wanting to find true friends but not knowing who to turn to, you know what I think? Just be yourself! I’m sure you’ve got a lot of good things to offer to a friend, eventually, someone will see it, and that’s when a true friendship will occur.
Hope this helps!
um…another prob.
this one is about friends now. So my friend gets pissed off really easily. Once, i was talkin to a person and we were laughing together and it was funn…then when my friend saw, she gets pissed! What’s her point??? So it’s like i can’t talk to n e one except HER, but soon she starts talking to other ppl like what i just did. Now, she’s pissed at me for some reason, but she won’t tell me. She won’t even talk to me daily. I’m like, a loner. She whispers to other ppl and now they’re ignoring me too. I know she’s not a really good friend but i could laugh every time i’m with her, and now she changed and now my daily life is just BORING! I wanted to find true friends but don’t know who to go to….I have really less close friends to be with. It’s really anoyying. I noticed that guys don’t get pissed as much as girls do. I wanted my friends to be like that. Guys that i noe never gets pissed at each other, but mayb they do but very less. So can someone tell me what to do about this ‘friend’?
bluelover,
so did your mom say yes? about the Maltese? Maltese are AWESOME, they’re so adorably cute you know. wish i could get one…life is SO unfair! lol 555+
star–heart,
i really think that you should tell her, but not straight-forwardly, but in a nice, neutral way. anyways, i feel kinda bad for her… maybe she can’t find confidence in herself…which is why she’s depending on you and others in your group…
glad i could help
We can use chat language I guess but no one is using it… But I’m not sure.
thx black_cosmos
that helped a lot. I think that I should tell him too. I’ll try…
OK RANDOMNESS TIME !!!
y is hardly ANY1 using “chat” language??
r v not allowed 2?
k this is RLLY l8 so u may hav already solved ur “problem”
but im new 2 this
going under…
if u hav a good relationship w/ the guy [ex.best friend or wateva]
smt u dunt wanna lose, then i dunt think u should tell him
that relationship may change, forever, n u may regret it
i think at this age, though friendship may last, BFGF relationships dunt.. but that’s just me
anyways so, think: if the worst would happen, would you regret it?
another thing: u said u dunt want him 2 change, how do u think he’ll react? WILL he change? u should no, cuz if u like the guy, then u must hav a reason, n u must no whether he’ll change or not… n whether hes the type dat changes or stays the same
n ur friend, i wouldnt worry too much
if she is a good friend, then she should understand
if she gets pissed n doesnt understand, well… letz just say shes not a good friend then
she could get mad, that’s understandable, but she should cool off pretty quickly
this is all about relationships… -_-”’
whenever ur worried n down, well no dat u r lucky,
to b reading this, to be blogging on this, to hav a computer to go on
to can even read this… there are tonz of ppl who hav a bad life, much worst than urs,
who r in pain evryday>>> so wheneva u feel bad? think of them
theres always a balance… when someone is having the best time in their lives,
somewhere someone is having their worst
oohhh, your friend is so like mine, but not that bossy. maybe tell her like, not directly…..somehow? or i dunno. I think that’s the best way..:D
I just don’t know how to tell her because I have known her for a really long time. When she’s mad she will tell another friend something like whisper but eventually that person will tell me to or whoever its about. Thanks for your help.
can someone please help me with my problem?
it’s on the previous page
thx:)
dear bwahaha No. 1
I don’t get your point (do you mean you want something that doesnt make you fat?)but if you are really hungry;;;
try non salty dry fruit or nuts.
Im hungry all the time in school and out of school. what should i do?
Dear star–heart++
Does other people think the same way as you do? If they do, maybe then your bossy friend would realize that people don’t like her. Try to get a lot of people on your side(don’t force them if they don’t want to) then let you bossy friend know how people think about them, then MAYBE they would know, but that’s their personality. You can’t really change your personality in 1 day or something. If your bossy friend isn’t herself, then she’s fake and people won’t want that. So she has to let other people see her real personality too. If you don’t like it, tell her or don’t hang out with her.
Now I have a problem… Well, I have this friend who is really changing a lot. First (younger) she always got mad and bossy. I used to get in a fight with her everyday and now she is beginning to get bossy again and have things her way. If we don’t agree with her she just starts saying like oh your not my friend. She cares more about herself than other people… But she doesn’t know that me and some other people don’t like her..
What should I do I can’t stand it anymore now its the 4th year stuck with her bad personality!